My Approach

I guide women and men who want more from their relationships.

Together, we face the reality that the patterns that got you into this place are not the same tools that will get you out. 

If you’re ready for your life to look different, let’s talk.

You can be successful in many areas of your life. You can even have a pretty nice time with your partner. But I believe that being excellent in love and sex, and building a relationship that feels transcendently good, is one of the hardest things any of us can do.

My background is in therapy, with a focus on depth work, the body, and the unconscious patterns that shape how we love. What actually happens underneath the frustrations or avoidance you feel in your relationships? Unspoken dynamics, places where desire has gone quiet, and subtle ways we take the easy road instead of telling the truth.

My approach is direct and deeply human. I won’t pathologize you, but I won’t collude with the stories that keep you stuck. That means a lot of tough love. We’ll laugh together, and we’ll face the real human shit together. Our North Star is you showing up with more honesty, self-respect, and aliveness in your relationship(s).

Great relationships are not built through perfection, performance, or cheap skills (though skills are nice, and we’ll talk about those, too). Transcendent love comes from the willingness to see yourself fully, and to learn to see your partner.

That’s the work.